Posts Tagged ‘Valentines Day’

Sea Shells …

February 14, 2026
Barleycove Beach, West Cork

It’s been a very wild West Cork Valentine’s Day.

Not the most romantic of presents, but I did buy Dee two gardening books to match her huge love of the garden down here – as the good weather shouldn’t be too far away, she will be back out there trying to make our little place here look as nice as possible.

She loves being out there in the garden, which in all honesty isn’t my cup of tea.

We drove to the hotel at Barleycove with the two dogs, Honey and Maggie, parked up, wrapped up and headed down the hill to the beach.

I don’t mind telling you, between the wind and the cold I couldn’t wait to get our beach walk out of the way and get back to the house for a fry up in front of the fire.

I walked and shivered in the rain, with my jacket shut and my hood up and I noticed Dee well behind me as she had stopped to pick up shells on the beach.

She has a significant birthday party quite soon and one of her plans is to bring a beach theme to the party and I guess this was the start of it, collecting sea shells!

I did briefly think “Christ to God Dee, can we not do this another time when we are not freezing our asses off” but watched her as she picked them up, one by one.

I did the same, putting them in my pocket as I walked with Honey impatiently pulling me this way and that.

Deirdre Waldron, Barleycove Beach

Dee caught up with me and I put the few shells that I had collected into the dog poop bag that was suddenly a very handy bag for the shells that Dee had collected at that point.

We continued with our walk in the wind and the cold collecting shells as we went and by the time we headed back up the hill, the bag was full of sea shells of all sizes and colours.

I enjoyed collecting shells with you she said

Maybe Valentine’s Day isn’t about presents after all?

Greg

Greg Canty is the host and producer of the Win Happy podcast

Valentines Day and minimum expectations

February 14, 2015

Romance

As she stepped out of the car she left me with the little bombshell “I hope you have something special organised for Valentine’s Day” ..Dee was half joking of course! (?)

All of a sudden this isn’t about a demonstration of your love, it’s an expectation, a bar, below which you will perish if you fail to do the right things and achieve that minimum standard!

I started thinking..I am on an absolute hiding to nothing here.

All I can do is either disappoint (try to avoid!) or successfully manage to satisfy this ‘expectation’. What can I possibly do to surprise her and make her feel as special as I feel about her on this day ..something beyond “he did what was required“?

To make matters worse I have been so busy with work that I haven’t had two minutes to scratch, think about what I might do and then have the time to actually organise whatever I come up with!!

Isn’t this what it is like with the service we provide our clients? They quite rightfully have a minimum expectation and your first job is making sure that you at least match that – anything less and they are disappointed.

But just like Dee you want to leave them surprised and feeling special and this means doing something that they are not expecting, something that they will really appreciate and show them how much you really care. This is the ‘sweet spot’ where you get to show them that you are quite different than all the other potential ‘lovers’ out there.

Just like Valentines Day it’s a challenge but if you want them to know how special they are you’ve got to dig deep..

Happy Valentines Day x

(My efforts ..I wrote a poem for her card, I bought a single rose, I brought her breakfast, we’ll walk on a beach and after that I will cook dinner …have I done enough?)

Greg Canty 

Greg Canty is a Partner of Fuzion who offer Marketing, PR and Graphic Design services from our offices in Dublin and Cork, Ireland